I'm sure you recall me telling you about the guy who wanted me to be the "other woman..."  Well, he emailed me again, but this time his email went a little different.

"Hey, I haven't heard from you, so I'll take that as a hint and figure that, you're not interested."

"Um, ding-ding-ding," I said aloud as I read the email.

The real question is, Why is this dude still contacting me?

"Sorry if you felt like I disrespected you, but if we don't take chances in life, what are we living for?"

Did he really run that line on me? "If we don't take chances..." First off, cheating on your wife is not a chance you should be wanting to take.  It's never a good situation. 

"If you ever change your mind, please don't hesitate to contact me," he said.

I didn't even finish the whole email before calling up my friend 'L' and telling her about the crazy email. 

"Yea, he's crazy," she said. 

I knew that he was crazy, but I just needed someone to confirm it for me. 

I still refuse to dignify his off shit with a response.  I mean seriously, who does that?
Apparently, several married men.  Seemingly, 2009 was the year of cheats coming out of the wood works. 

Who solicits sex via email? He must be the dumbest man ever.  Doesn't he realize women are clever? Men don't give us enough credit.  His wife has probably been all through his email checking up on his ass. LOL.  Seriously!

I wanted to respond back to him and tell him to get a life, but I am a firm believer that sometimes silence is the best weapon. 

The worse thing about this all is that, he lives across the street.  I guess he thought that he was going to get some quick start booty from me or something. 

I wonder, how many people are in unhappy marriages?

What is it about some married men! Don't get me wrong, this post is not to bash married men, because there are several men out there who are committed, in love, and respect their relationships.  However, I'm annoyed with married men who believe it's ok to push up on single women or send inappropriate emails.

Last month

I received an email from an old acquaintance.  Nothing alarming about that, right?!?! Well, that's what I thought until I continued reading the email. 

"Hello," he said. 

"What the hell, I'm just going to say it," he continued.

"I really am attracted to you and I want us to pleasure each other."

"I don't want to leave my wife, or anything like that."

"The truth of the matter is, I have been attracted to you all along."

I was floored! First off, Why did he decide to send me this email? He's a married man.  I wrecked my brain that day trying to think back, and trying to remember if I in some way delivered a "F-me vibe" but NOPE, I hadn't. 

As I continued to read the long email, he talked about how his wife was going to be out of town, and that he really wanted to see me. 

"If you want a little fun, call me.  But, if I don't hear back from you, I understand, please don't hate me, or avoid me when you see me," he said.

I didn't respond back to his email.  What was I suppose to say in response? I was so offended.  He and I were always cool, and never in a million years did I expect to receive a message like that from him.  He should have known that I wouldn't respond. 

The only thought that entered my mind was in regards to his wife.  How could this man disrespect his wife like that?

Emailing

Another thing, what the hell is up with people using email, texting, etc. as their main form of communication? It's like person to person or phone contact no longer exist.  I think that people are weird when they send random messages electronically, but maybe that's just me. 

Obviously, there are several women who probably would have taken him up on his offer; however, I never will be the 'other woman.'