I was talking to my friend "L Sexy" she goes by that because she's a boss.  We were talking about our previous relationships and how even the guys we "dated" were no different from the "boyfriends." 

"I don't think I'll ever call another dude my boyfriend," L Sexy declared.

I cracked up for a minuto at just the thought of her statement.  But, it's so true! If you really think about the time that is wasted on meaningless relationships, you realize that labeling these guys is so not worth it.  I told her that I'm going to copy her and follow her lead.  I've probably had 4 undeserving guys in my life that were given the great opportunity of being called my boyfriend.  At the end of the day I realize that, most of us are far too fabulous to waste our time. 

My friend said from this point forward she's either single or married, and I couldn't agree more.  Why should we waste our time? Being single is far better than getting caught up in emotions, feelings, or stressing over 'getting to know' someone.  No one likes the introduction.  It would be so much better if we could just speed past all of that. 

I'm taking my friends advice and from this point forward every dude I date is 'my friend.'  If it gets serious... I'm still single until there's a ring on my finger.