You may remember, I recently gave up meat... well, all except fish.  I've definitely noticed several benefits to being a vegetarian, but I'm seriously running out of dinner ideas.  Usually, I am adventurous and go all out but tonight was a different story.  I made asparagus, brown rice w basil, and broccoli.  Doesn't it sound boring? A part of me wants to break down and go back to eating chicken, turkey... oh, and my favorite lamb.  I use to be obsessed with lamb.  So, all you vegetarians out there--I'm trying to stay strong but I need help.  What are some good recipes? 

 I'm having a hard time watching Desperate Housewives.  Why does it seem like the show is skipping around? Am I the only one who feels this way? Now, the Fiancee of Lynette's son has been strangled to death by some dude who I can't identify.  Seriously, who the hell is he? I obviously missed that part.  It would be so much more interesting if the "assumed strangler" was actually a copy cat.  I almost prefer for the Strangler to be Orson.  He did always have a thing for redheads.  Much more interesting than some random kid.  Is Marc Cherry losing his creative mojo? Hopefully he proves me wrong.  And, what's up with Angie's ex husband (the boys real father)? BORING! I don't care about this storyline anymore.  Kidnapping the boy isn't interesting.  I'm still awaiting the climatic episode, because I haven't seen any fireworks.  They definitely waited too long to identify the strangler in the first place.  Even if the strangler was a woman... so much more interesting.  

Are you still watching Desperate Housewives? 

 I always hear that Asparagus makes peoples pee smell like rotten eggs, but I swear I've never experienced this.  Several people have told me that they avoid eating it all together because of the funky smell.  I guess I should consider myself lucky that I don't have this problem, because I LOVE Asparagus.  
According to MSNBC online, 
Asparagus contains a sulfur compound called mercaptan.  The same compound is found in onions, garlic, rotten eggs, and in the secretions of Skunks (now, that's some stank shit, wowzers!).  The report also stated that, not all people experience the foul odor but that close to half do.

Found this funny comic strip online and couldn't resist posting.
  

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 I'm sure it's no surprise that there has been a lot of talk in the media about black women being single.  The media makes it sound like we're "desperately seeking a mate."  I mean seriously... I know plenty of white women who have the same problem.  But, I don't really think the problem is finding a mate, because finding someone is NO problem... the issue is finding the RIGHT mate.  I wish that reporters, media, blog enthusiast, etc. would get that little tidbit correct.  Finding the right man can be difficult for anyone.  

Everyone's solution is, "black women should be more 'open minded' and date outside of their race."  Well, I don't believe that any person would deny someone of the opposite race if that's who they fell in love with, but what's wrong with wanting to date someone who is from your same ethnic background? People make it sound like you're an asshole if you say that you prefer to date within your race.  

Whoppi Goldberg actually made an interesting point on The View this morning.  She said that, the media always reports that she doesn't like black men, but that's just not true.  Goldberg said that, she dates who approaches her and black men usually like "Halle Berry" types or women other than what she looks like.  I listened to her point and thought that it was actually pretty valid.  Personally, I think Halle Berry is probably every man's type: black, white, indifferent (haha).  I believe Goldberg was attempting to make the point that black men are typically more interested in light-skinned women over darker tone women.  I've never been turned down by a man because of my complexion not to my face, at least; however, I have been discriminated against in a relationship because of my race.  

I see more black men date OTHER ethnicities rather than it being a "light-skin or dark skin debate."  

In my opinion, there's nothing wrong with anyone dating outside of their race but I have an issue when black men begin to down play the black woman.  I have posed the question to several black men throughout the years as to why they choose women outside of the "black race."  I expect for them to say, "because I fell in love" or "it's what i'm attracted to," but instead the response is, because black women are loud, controlling, etc.  "They won't allow me to be a man" this statement coming from a friend of mine.  I thought that it was interesting, and rather than judge the statement, I listened.  On the flip side, I have also been told by a few black men that "black women wouldn't give them the time or day."  Are black women too picky? 

 Is this really how black men feel about ALL black women? I hope not! because, not ALL fall into this category.  My friend continued to tell me that, he can do sexual things with his "white girlfriend" that he can't do with a black woman.  HE didn't want to explain, but I'm curious to know what that means.  What do white women do that black women don't do? Interesting! 

Should WE just all date outside of our race? I'm curious to hear from black men regarding their thoughts on black women dating men other than black.  


As I end this blog, I'm about to tune into Nightline on ABC.  The topic is: Successful Single Black Women, Why Can't they Find a Man.  Hasn't Nightline done this story a couple of times? 

So, I have been relentless in trying to contact various people to review my poetry book, Diary of a Skinny Girl.  Two weeks ago I decided that I would look up the address to Tyler Perry's production studio in Atlanta, Georgia and send him a copy.  I went to the Post Office, handed the carrier my package, asked to add a Delivery Confirmation Receipt--ooo, I was happy! Last week, I tracked my packaged and noticed that it was delivered to Atlanta Georgia.  Actually, it said that it was delivered to his studio.  You have NO idea how happy I was to even dream of Tyler Perry reading my book.  Unfortunately, my package was returned today with a big note on the front, "Return to Sender."  Damn, what does a girl have to do to get her book reviewed by Tyler Perry? 

 I am completely obsessed with Aveda's acne skin care line, Outer Peace.  For several years I have suffered from skin irritation and occasional break outs.  This skin care line has definitely changed my life.  In NO way is Aveda paying me for saying this... I just love blogging and why not blog about the things I love, right? I don't use the entire system, because my problem isn't severe, but I use the Foaming Cleanser and Acne Relief Lotion.  The acne system is a bit on the pricey side, but works wonders and leaves skin clearer, brighter, and irritation free.  The other bonus is that, there aren't any harsh chemicals.  Don't you hate when you wash your face and you can smell the Benzoyl Peroxide or Salicylic Acid? Yuck!
Out of all the skin care systems that I've used so far this is a winner! Have you used Aveda's products before, if so, what's your favorite? 




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 Sure, Sandra Bullock was in the movie, The Blind Side, but I highly doubt that she's blind.  Just in case you've been living under a rock--i'm referring to Bullock's husband Jesse James' alleged affairs.  I'm not too certain of the many women hussy's in question; however, I have seen Michelle "Bombshell" McGee all over the internet and television.  Seriously, does she go away? A few days ago, I decided to watch Inside Edition and she popped up on my television screen again.  Here's my gripe with her... She's stated that Jesse James told her he and Bullock were separated and living in different homes, but unless you live under a rock, how could you not know that they were still together? Her story is so full of Cow "S."  I've read the stories how she sent James a message saying she was interested in being a model for his bikes "allegedly."  Alright, Alright, maybe she didn't know... (side eye stare).  Most women who are "dating" screwing will investigate via internet to see if he's telling the truth or not.  Hell, even if he's my man I'm investigating (but, that's just the kinda girl I am!).  
 
Let's get this straight, I don't think that she's vial because she had an affair with a married man, because as adults we are all responsible for our actions.  She has NO obligation to Bullock.  My gripe with McGee is that she's now all over my television screen.  We know you had an affair with James you don't have to hop, skip, and jump on every damn station (I get it, she needs to make her money, too).  I'm just repulsed by her.  Ok, there I said it! I find her repulsive.  

OK, I take it back! Maybe I am a little judgmental because she slept with James knowing he's a married man.  I'm tired of women not having respect for themselves.  I'm tired of women acting like "it's" OK to sleep with married men because they don't "know" the wife.  I'm tired of women not having enough self worth for their own bodies.  And, yes, it does have to do with self-esteem, in my opinion.  Because, if you liked yourself enough you wouldn't allow yourself to be put in that situation.  Do I think that McGee has low self-esteem? Ab-so-fuckin-lutely! However, I do NOT believe that that was her sole reason for sleeping with him.  I definitely think that she was seeking publicity and money, and possibly fell in love with him (side eye stare). 

I watched her defend her Swastika by saying she was young when she got the tattoo (it took place over 15 years ago) according to her.  She has a ton of excuses.  Her accuse for her posing in Nazi attire.... well, the photographer told her to wear it.  So, if he told you to jump off a bridge, would you do it? Ridiculous! 
I have a another gripe and it may surprise you.  My issue is with Sandra Bullock.  I know she's America's Sweetheart and "how dare I talk about America's Sweetheart."  BUT, Sandra Bullock is not BLIND! I repeat Sandra Bullock is not BLIND! So here's my complaint... I know that she was in the movie, The Blind Side, and came across as the "Guardian Angel" blah, blah; however, that was just a movie.  As I continue to read allegations that Jesse James is a Nazi loving, Skinhead saluting dude-- I also can't help but think that Bullock was aware of his love for Nazis.  How can you be married to someone and not know that he's a racist? How can you be married to someone and not know that he has photos of himself doing Nazi salutes (allegedly)? I don't believe you can, and NO one can convince me otherwise.  So then I started thinking, hell, Sandra Bullock is German... Seemingly, she accepted his alleged racism.  

But, I just want to be clear.  Bullock did not deserve to be cheated on and shame on James and McGee.  I know that it's too soon, but I really would like to hear what Bullock has to say about everything.  There's so much more to the story than we know, and so much more that I'm sure isn't being said.  Only time will tell.
 

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Have you ever felt like you're holding on to a ridiculous amount of negative energy? It's not that you even try to hold on to the energy or be preoccupied with it, but sometimes you can't help but think about the past.  I guess even negative things are what allow us to grow.  Started to read this book for class called, Forgiveness: How to Make Peace with Your Past and Get on With you Life.  I can't wait to really start getting into this book.  Wonder if I'll learn anything new about myself? So many of us allow our past lives to shape who we become.  Have you read this book?



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Today, I saw this woman smoking a cigarette and she appeared to be at least six months pregnant.  I seriously wanted to run up to her and snatch the cig out of her mouth.  I watched her in disbelief as she continued to drag on the cigarette--she didn't even let up for air.  Minutes later she put out the cigarette, and sat down next to me.  I know she noticed the judgmental look on my face.  I try not to judge but this time I couldn't hold back.  The messed up thing is that this wasn't the first time I witnessed a pregnant woman smoking a cigarette.  


Did she realize that the cigarette directly affects her unborn child? I guess she didn't care much.  Such a pain in the ass.  I wish I would have asked her reasons for smoking and purposely harming her child.  Why not just use protection? I really don't see the point of bringing a child into this world and being so careless.  I think I want to research this topic in more detail and this time find a pregnant woman who is willing to let me interview her.  Interesting topic.  


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 I can't really sleep, so I decided to work on my blog design.  I'm thinking about changing the direction of my blog but I'm not certain what the direction will be.  I enjoy talking about dating, life, sex, etc. but I haven't had a whole lot to talk about.  I think I need to set time aside and start working on my blog like it's another job.  Hum, ok, I think I have given myself a few ideas. HAHA! So much work to do, but it will get done.  Night, Night.